A close look at the key players in the music career of Abby Miller
Due to the slightly frustrating fact that I’m only sixteen, the journey into the music industry is not one I can legally go alone. Luckily, I have a wonderful and incredibly supportive family behind me one hundred percent. While our little unit has a really special relationship, the situation can sometimes create a few minor complications.
–My charming, but slightly oblivious father is the top business man in a national company. He never made it to college, but somehow manages to dominate every business encounter he comes across. Along with being the most hilarious person I have ever met, my dad is the hardest worker I have ever seen. He is an amazing person who literally puts everyone in front of himself. He has had multiple old ladies tell him he’s going to heaven.
– My mom is a first grade teacher at a local elementary school. She is one of those pretty moms, but not because she’s trying hard to be one, she just is. My mom is innocent in a good way, sometimes crossing into naive, but only when it comes to expecting goodness from all people. My mom is also incredibly not funny. She’s so anti-funny that it turns out to be comical every time she tries, so I guess that helps her a little bit. I like to think I got my dad’s genes on that end, and that my poor brother picked up my mom’s unfortunate habit.
– My brother is twelve years old. He is the most disgusting eater I have ever seen in my entire life. He literally can’t feel when food is oozing down his face. I suggested we use shock therapy to fix the problem but my parents didn’t think his eating habit called for such drastic measures. I also created one other possible problem. It has to do with forcing my little brother to do a lot of things a boy should never do no matter how young you are. I’m slightly afraid of the repercussions of it all, but due to his incredible athletic skills, I think he’ll make out alright. The positive side is that he’s incredibly outgoing and everyone in his class seems to follow his lead.
–And without a doubt the most important member in our family is our beloved dog Duncan. Weighing in at about fifty pounds heavier than he should be, Duncan spends his days eating, sleeping, and occasionally walking into things. He is the punch line to just about every joke and can be inserted into every situation making it an instantly hilarious scenario.
If I was looking to keep this small town life I would have the perfect setup. The business man dad who is so attentive to his family, the beautiful school teacher mom who would do anything for her kids, the little boy who is a gifted athlete, and the daughter who get’s straight A’s and has lots of friends. I’m so grateful to have grown up in such a wonderful environment but unfortunately, that’s not what I’m looking for.
Statistics say that average parents will spend about $100,000 on each of their kids from birth to eighteen. I think I passed that about a year ago. This career that I’m striving for requires major money to get started and if you’re lucky, you might get some of it back. I do get a little bit of guilt knowing that my parents’ life could have been so much easier with a daughter looking to experience her adolescent years in a normal way, but it was never really a choice for me. I had to pursue this dream, because otherwise it would just eat away at me. My parents understood that. They saw that it was serious and devoted themselves to helping me get where I need to be, and I’ll never be able to repay them enough for that.
So here we are, the go getter family, ready to help skyrocket my career. Here are the roles I think we fall into:
Abby-The Artist
- Obviously I’m the one trying to start the career
Dad- Business manager/motivational speaker
- Tends to handle all expenses and investments having to do with my career (Lucky him).
- Seriously, gives the best, most inspirational, makes random strangers cry kind of pep-talks I’ve ever heard. I don’t know where he gets it from, but my dad knows how to motivate people in the most beautiful, heart felt way. He just knows what to say and that’s why all my friends (guys and girls) come over to get some advice from the best.
Mom- Personal Manager
- She’s a little to sweet to be the stage mom so I think she’s more of the personal manager type. This means she tends to monitor the “well-being of the artist” and make sure I maintain a “healthy” emotional state.
Brother- Promotion
- Because he’s younger, my little bro can pretty much say whatever he wants about me without needing to worry about being humble and modest. He’s pretty much the best tool ever because he can use his little boy cuteness when going on about how “wonderful I am” without being judged.
- He also keeps me grounded, so that before I stress out about all my issues I remember that he’s trying to live like a normal person, and that what he’s doing is important too. I worry that he might get lost in all the “Abby stuff” that my family is always rushing off to do, so I make sure to go to all his sporting events, school assemblies and pretty much do everything I can to make sure he feels valued and inspired by life the way I am.
Duncan- Personal Trainer/ Nutritionist
- Duncan is the perfect motivation to make sure I’m maintaining a healthy lifestyle. He is a pretty prime example of what it looks like to “let yourself go,” so before I decide to sit on the couch and indulge in whatever fattening treat my mom forgot to hide from my brother and I, I simply look at Duncan and understand the consequences it could have on my every day activities, in his case walking and sitting up.
I wish there was a way for me to put into words how hilarious our situation is. I know my relationship with my family is special because for some crazy reason, unlike the rest of my peers, I’m not constantly trying to get away from them. We are constantly traveling so that gives us a lot of quality car time. As expected we do have our disagreements now and then, ranging from choices for my career to my little brother’s unique but obnoxious ability to make fart noises with every single part of his body, but as my dad would say, “It’s all part of the experience.”(I tried to remember that when he spit his soda off the boat the other day and it flew back in my face). Anyways, it’s a very unique system we’ve got going and I’m so lucky to have it. In the end it’ll be my family that gets me where I want to go in life and hopefully I’ll be able to give that right back to them. They are without a doubt my favorite people on the planet and I can’t wait for the rest of our adventures as we take on all this life has to offer!
Abby Miller is a sixteen year old singer/songwriter from North Conway, NH. She is currently working on her debut album. The self-titled album is a mix of Pop and Country. Abby has performed in many locations including Radio City Music Hall in New York City, the IPOP Convention in Los Angeles, California, and at multiple venues in Nashville, Tennessee. She continues to write and perform locally, while also teaming up with a local youth center in order tor raise money for a new facility. All profits from her CD will be donated to the cause. For more information on Abby Miller visit her Website….. or find her on YouTube or Facebook.